I married my husband a short 6 months after meeting him, because I knew our souls belonged to each other and had loved one another since before this life.
So how do you know when you've found the one? Its the ultimate question everyone wants to know. What does True Love feel like and how will I know?
For me it was like we clicked. Something happened that first day we spent together and I needed to see him again. I needed to spend more time with him. I just wanted to be with him. He was all I could think about. And everything just feel into place so easy and naturally, nothing was forced.
I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time, its just something that happened.
A few truths to the "Rules of Love" you may have heard:
- You have to love yourself first. Be confident in who you are. And know that your worth is not dictated by your relationship or lack of one.
- You can not force things. If its meant to happen it will. And even though you may feel like you love this person and it 'has to work out', there may be better things waiting for you around the corner. Don't stay in a relationship because your afraid of not having another one.
- If its meant to be- it will be. Simple as that. If you truly are soul-mates, that greater power will bring you together.
Below is a list of ways you can tell if you are potential soul mates. But just because you make the list doesn't mean it will for sure happen or not.
- You can convey what you're thinking by just looking at each other.
- You can't even remember what it was like to be without them — and you don't want to!
- They challenge you/Make you a better person every day.
- They know exactly what to do to calm you down when you're mad, to help relieve your stress, or to cheer you up.
- They also know exactly what to do to get under your skin . . . and they at least attempt to not do those things.
- Even after years of being together, you still have great chemistry.
- You are completely comfortable in their presence.
- After spending a few days apart, you both talk a mile a minute to catch each other up on everything you both missed.
- It feels like you've known each other your whole lives.
- You disagree on some things, but are always on the same page when it really matters.
- You have a bond that people around you don't understand.
- Their family feels like your own family.
- You don't feel the need to keep searching for more because you are so at peace with what you have.
- You hurt when they hurt; you smile when they smile.
- They are part of almost every story you tell.
- They think the weird, quirky things you do are adorable, and you feel the same way about them, too.
- You are a better person with them than without them.
- They support you and your dreams — even if they don't entirely understand them.
- You are a dynamic duo, a perfect pair, a true team.
- You feel protected by them and secure in your relationship.
- For the first time in your life, you realize that home is not a place, but a person.
- In some ways, you have become pretty much the same person.
- You are your best and worst self around them, and they love you for both.
- You know, in your gut, that this is it for you.
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